Trying to attain full custody in California is often an uphill battle. As we’ve covered in previous blog posts, the state of California will always push for shared custody, as it has been demonstrated that having both parents actively engaged in a child’s upbringing is beneficial for not just the child, but for all involved parties as well. The courts will sometimes grant full custody, but only if and when the circumstances dictate that this is the best course of action for the child. 

Securing full custody isn’t impossible, but there are many caveats and steps that you need to account for in order to have a shot at this arrangement. Today’s post covers some of the main points and takeaways that you need to know as you prepare for your upcoming custody or other family law hearing in CA.

Prioritize Your Child’s Needs and Well-Being

Whatever the relationship between you and the ex might be, it’s vital that you always prioritize what’s best for your child. This will align with the family law courts and will increase your chances of them agreeing with your argument, provided that it is truly in the best interests of the child. If your reasons for wanting sole custody aren’t strictly to benefit your child, you may want to reconsider your approach as he/she will be better served by a more equitable custody and visitation arrangement. Your child’s preference and input matters as well, albeit to a more limited extent. 

Remain Civil and Ensure You Present Yourself in a Favorable Light

Family law courts scrutinize both parents extensively during custody and divorce proceedings. This is doubly true when one or both parents seek to have sole custody granted. This means that you have to make sure you’re presenting yourself authentically and in the best possible light. 

Avoid getting into arguments with the ex, clearly demonstrate your ability to parent your child via your words and actions, and always play it safe. Avoid any underhanded tactics or outright lies, and definitely don’t encourage your children to lie in hopes of getting a specific custody outcome. If any of this comes to light, which it likely will during the thorough proceedings, your reputation can take a major hit which could have significant implications on the outcome of your custody dispute. 

Ensure that Everything is Compliant with the Law and Above Board

Following along similar lines to the last point, you’re about to be scrutinized by a legal authority that can dictate the terms of your post-divorce life. Getting in trouble with the law is simply not an option, whether you’re talking about a simple traffic citation or more serious criminal accusations. Any trouble with the law will instantly destroy your credibility and could even have your parental rights revoked. 

Consult with a Qualified Family Law Attorney in CA

Preparing for a custody hearing is often an involved and intensive process, and fighting for single custody in CA is no easy task. Making a strong, clear case as to why this is in the best interests of the child is key and preparation is half the battle. 

The biggest tip we can share is this: make sure you recruit the assistance of a qualified legal professional to guide you through the process and help strengthen your case. At the White Oak Law, our team of established divorce attorneys always take the time to work with you and understand your legal needs. They then tap into their decades of experience with family law in CA to help formulate an effective strategy for your case. 

Learn more about how we at the White Oak Law can help. Give us a call at 925-271-0999 to connect with our legal team today.